Jonathan Hutton’s Unflappable Spirit: Cancer, Paragliding, and New Perspectives on Life
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Jonathan Hutton’s Unflappable Spirit: Cancer, Paragliding, and New Perspectives on Life

Hey, everybody. Welcome to My Guest Tonight. I've got a great guest

joining me tonight. Author of unflappable, soaring beyond

A diagnosis we have. We're going to be talking surviving cancer,

becoming an author, paragliding. He learned to

fly through the clouds and the

pain Turn his struggle

astray Sunshine through the

rain from scattering

dreams to stories on the

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Jonathan Hunter takes the

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Guest Tonight with Jeffrey.

A voice unflappable

strong and resilient Strong

lifting heart sky high

Tonight we learn what it means

to fly.

I even left the crowd cheering in there

because I would imagine, like, if I'm sailing over, like, cornfields at

sunset, like, I want to be amped and pumped. I want to. There's a

calmness to paragliding, but I also want to have some

adrenaline, I think, you know, so that I'm fully paying attention to

everything around me. Yeah. When, you know, when you're new at it,

there is no lack of adrenaline,

I'll tell you that. Yeah. Oh, thank you for the intro. Love

it. You're welcome. I'll officially welcome Jonathan Hutton to My Guest

Tonight. We're going to go back, we're going to tell some stories, see the

bits and pieces of the history that makes Jonathan who he is Today. We're going

to talk about the new book. He's got a little bit of announcement he just

shared with me right before we went live. He's got something to show us.

Jonathan, let's go back, you know, before

authoring and paragliding and tell us a little bit about, you know, where you came

from and. And a little bit about your childhood. Where were you born in?

Yeah, well, I was raised

as an army kid. Right. So

when I was a young adult and people would ask me

that question, like, where are you from? Where are you from? I never

really had a good answer because I was from a lot of places

from the time that I was born. I was

born in Savannah, Georgian in that area. And

we moved in the military all over the country, and

we were abroad for a little while. And then I

continued doing that after my dad

retired, got out of the army. And then by that time I was

off to college and kept moving.

Eventually, I returned to

a place that I had discovered

a semester away in school, which was

Pacific Northwest. Something

about this part of the country stuck with me, and

I decided to return here. And I've

never left. So home for me now is

Olympia, Washington. I

write about kind of that whole origin story and

the first couple of chapters

in the book so, yeah, that's a little bit about

where I'm from, how I got here

to Olympia. And then, you know, there's

the story of how I got into

paraclining. I mean, I totally get the area that you're

talking about. I'm in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, which is a mid Atlantic.

We're probably about the same latitude. I used to live in Buffalo.

Yeah, okay. Yeah, probably about the same

latitude, probably same temperature. Maybe not the same amount of precipitation.

Yeah, we don't really get snow here. So

I'm kind of. Right. Situated near the Puget

Sound. Right. So we're at

the same latitude, but our winters

here, very, very mild. So that's

definitely a big difference. For my years I spent in the northeast

and, like, western upstate New York.

Yeah, Buffalo can be brutal. But that's. That's one of the things about these

areas. We do get to experience four seasons.

Even though yours is a little bit more mild, because you probably have those. The

South Pacific, west winds coming up the coast there, but

you still get four distinct time. And that's. That is something that is

unique to the northern part of the United States, is

those seasons and those changes make a big difference in the quality of your life.

They do, absolutely. So you returned there. What

were you studying in college? I studied business

and English. I. I didn't really have a

clear idea of what I wanted to do

beyond I want to make more money than my dad made.

And so I spent a little bit of time working

in banking, and I realized I

hated it, and I was miserable. And I'm like, well, what the

hell do I do with my life now? And right around that

time was when the Great Recession happened.

And so I kind of flown in and did a lot of different things for

a number of years. Kind of in that period of

time was when I first tried

skydiving, which is not paragliding.

But I realized I absolutely

loved it. The experience. You know, I'm doing a tandem skydive

where you jump with an instructor. Just a ton of

fun. I went with a friend of mine, and as soon as

we're on the ground, he's like, we have to do this again. We have to

learn this. And so that kind of started a

whole side quest, I guess you could say.

At that point in my life, I didn't have

the money to afford to continue to learn on skydive.

And I realized that the thing that I really loved was not

falling in free fall, it was flying the

parachute. And then I was like, is there a way to do

that it's like fly and soar.

And in fact, there is. It's called paragliding.

And so I Learned about that

13, 14 years ago. And I was like, I'm going to learn

how to do that sometime. I kind of put a pin in that in my

mind and. Yeah. And that was kind

of the origin of something that is

a big theme in the book, which is kind of that dream

of learning how to fly, being in the sky,

soaring, picking that back up and actually

doing it. Was the first time you went skydiving? Some people have

a story like it was my 25th birthday, so I was

going to do this, or a friend dragged me along. Was

there a specific reason the two of you decided to go that

day? No, I don't think so. I think it

was one of those things where we had a free

day on the weekend. We weren't doing anything. And my

bunny, Chad, who's one of those very

charismatic people who can convince just about

anything, anyone to do anything, he was like, do you want to do?

And I was like, yes. So I.

Yeah, I was all in kind of right at the beginning. And then I was

really convinced that it was something I wanted to do more of once

I tried it for the first time. And when you

landed finally, that. What's that feeling like the.

The first time you go through the process of leaving a plane,

free falling, opening the chute, and coasting to the

ground, how does that feel when you first get

to the ground? Yeah, well, I'll answer that in two

ways. When you first.

First ever do something like that, especially

skydiving, but to a lesser extent, paraclining.

A lot of people when they have that first experience, and

for most people, it's the first and only experience

you're tethered to an instructor,

but what tends to happen is it's just

overwhelm and

your adrenaline and your energy is so high,

you don't really get to savor it in the same way as

when you become a student and you do it

repeatedly. So,

you know, I think the experience for me that was

really life changing was

when I was learning how to skydive as a student.

You know, you jump, there's an instructor over here, an instructor over

here, but you all have your own parachutes that you're gonna throw.

And just that experience of

all the nervousness leaving the plane and then

you're. It's so loud in freefall, it's

just wind against your ears. You can't hear anything.

And then you throw in the parachute and then in a.

What feels like a split second, you're no longer

falling, you're flying, and it's quiet.

That was just otherworldly for me.

And I knew that there was something special there. And then just

kind of boating around in the sky under a

canopy really unlock something for

me. And I was just. I was convinced I was going to do it

again. How long does it take to be a student before you

can, you know, go on with your own shoot, even though there's instructors with

you? What kind of regimen is that kind of training?

You know, for people who are really

brave, you can. You can have that sort of jump,

be your first jump, but it requires dedicating

like a day, a half a day to

training on the ground and practicing

maneuvers and learning about reserve parachutes

and automatic activation devices and what

to do in certain sorts of events if the main chute

doesn't open or opens all twisted up.

So. Yeah, but for most people, what they do is

they'll go into a tantrum or two, and then they're like, oh, I want

to do this. And then they enroll in a training program. And

then you have to, I think for.

It's called AFF, Accelerated Free Fall.

It's like 25 jumps or something like

that. And you have to demonstrate certain skills, and then you get

your kind of beginner license. Yeah.

And while you're studying

parachuting and you're kind of. Your mind is in the future thinking

about paragliding, there's some changes in your

health that start to happen, and maybe even before you went

parachuting the first time. But there's some history

here with your health that I think is important to the story and especially

the book that we're going to talk about. Yeah, it is. And

in terms of timeline, you know,

13 some years ago, dabbled in

skydiving. And then it was more like a little

over 10 years ago that I got a very

unexpected diagnosis of

really rare nasopharyngeal

cancer. So here, for people who are like

nasopherouette, your nasopharynx

is like this area behind

your nose and above your jaw, like

that general area. It's all kind of connected. And

you'll hear people say, like, nasal,

sinonasal, nasal, all kind of referring to the same

general area. But, yeah, I

had. I didn't have any

symptoms beyond. I seem to have

allergies, like runny nose type

allergies that never went away. And it was just annoying. And

eventually I

went to see an allergist he's like, oh, you're just allergic to grass. Like,

get some allergy shots I can flick out here.

And I was like, it doesn't seem right. It doesn't seem right.

And I eventually

saw an ent. An ear, nose

and throat doctor.

And he, as they do, looked up

my nose. I was like, huh, there's a

mass there. And, yeah, that kind of

began the whole journey, which

has been, you know, 10 some years over.

Over the course of, like, all of my 30s,

dealing with this really kind of persistent

cancer. So, yeah, that kind of got

in the way of the paragliding thing.

Well, that's good that you. You knew enough to, like,

something feels off here, Something feels wrong. You know, you have symptoms

other than what look like or represented, like allergies.

You're like, I've had allergies. I've. I've been allergic to things before.

This feels different. And you, you went out and got that second opinion, even

though there wasn't like pain or discomfort or distortion of the

face. And, and you on your own did that. And, you know,

you got the right diagnosis and you're able to get treatment or start treatment at

that time. And tell us a

little about that journey, because getting that news isn't easy

the first time. And there's been subsequent times.

Yeah, yeah,

the timing was just awful. I had

just started a new job

and

I was like, well, I don't. I

have not been here long enough to

have any, like, protection for

my job. Like, what am I going to do?

Thankfully, that worked itself out.

I still work for the same company. That's

amazing. That's great. Yeah, they've really taken care of me in a

lot of ways in my cancer journey and my

career journey. Very much

have a lot of parallels. But

yeah, it was. The timing was bad. I was like,

well, I'm newly 30

and I have this rare cancer that no one has

heard of. I've never heard of anyone who has

nose cancer, let alone rare nose

cancer. And so I'm like, well,

this might be the end. I've had some fun in my life.

That's fine. I'm not going to stress about it. And

then, yeah, I kind of jumped into

surgery and treatment and

spent a lot of time in Seattle. And

that kind of started a whole other

journey, which I talk pretty

extensively about in the kind of

middle section, first half of the book.

In some ways, sometimes accepting that is liberating.

Like, this is the journey that I'm going to be on. I'm lucky. I'm

Here today, you know, I need to celebrate every

moment of my life. And that's kind of your philosophy too. Like your every

day is a great day to be alive. Like, I think I

read a little something, if I could pull it up in my

notes real quick. The presence and gratitude. You believe

in the ability that the present is a gift, especially

given the limited amount of time that we have, the four, four

thousand weeks. And that's something that, you know.

Yes, you have this diagnosis and you're going through these treatments, but

may have given you new perspective or. Or a whole new

perspective on life. Yeah, yeah, I think it

definitely did. And one of the

really valuable things that I learned

kind of reflecting back and one of the

reasons I think I wrote the book and decided

to start waking up at 4am

and trying to

block out enough time and space in my life

to take on a project like this was I wanted

to understand what kind of the

cumulative effect of

those 10 years, how I had

changed. I

understood really

acutely the physical things that had changed.

And I talk about that quite a bit in the book. But

I hadn't really spent a lot of time sitting and

reflecting on how I had changed as

a person. What were some of the

things I had learned from the experiences

of going through really awful treatment and

recovering, having really

serious reconstructive surgery

following some pretty awful side

effects from radiation, how that had kind of

changed my life. And so

the book was really instructive in that I had to

kind of unpack that for the reader, but

also for myself. So yeah,

but I do have a

more articulate way of conveying

really what I've learned. And

I feel really lucky to have managed to

scrape together the time and resources and

the right people who kind of pointed me in the

direction of, no, yeah, you should actually do that.

And in the middle of all this, you had your eyes on the future.

Eyes on paragliding is during these treatments

or in between where you're like, now I'm going full

speed ahead in the paragliding. Yeah, actually.

So it was about two and a half, three

years ago, I had another

recurrence and more surgery.

This was kind of after

housing two really kind of life

altering surgeries

to repair damage to my skull and my

face that radiation had caused.

And then I get cancer again. And

I told my wife, I was like, you know what, I can't

wait anymore. After we get through this neck

surgery and I'm recovering, I'm making

this happen. And yeah,

we did. I went

part time at work And I was

fortunate enough to be put in

touch with some instructors in the Seattle

area who are now like good friends of mine,

people I talk about in the book. And I

lived up there in Issaquah part of the week and

just trained and trained and trained

during that summer. And I had

a lot of fun. It was more challenging than I expected,

but it's really been

massively rewarding. And

yeah, I'm. The people

I've met in the community of folks that do

this, the places I've traveled to and the

perspectives, the things, the way that I've

seen the world very literally

from thousands of feet above the ground, it's just

has really shifted how I

think about life and my

priorities. And it's been really, really

a gift, like you said. Is there, is

there a ceiling cap of how high you can go or when you're up there?

It's got to be meditative, just floating with the clouds.

How high up do you go? And the higher you go, does it clear your

mind more? Well, so

you start getting into the things

that airplanes have to deal with, like

airspace restrictions.

But yeah, there is a ceiling, which is a function

of the area you're flying into airspace. But

one of the things I didn't really know heading into

learning was there's kind of a whole other

discipline in

flying, which is finding

the air that's rising and putting yourself in it and

going up. That's how you have longer

flights, is how you do something I talk about in the book,

which is called cross country flying.

That can be depending on where you are, depending on the air

actually can be rough at times. Like

you're in active air moving up.

There are moments where it's still and quiet and you're just kind of soaring.

But there are moments where you're

climbing and you're moving. You're kind of getting tossed around

a little bit.

It can be in its own way meditative because

you are so focused on what you're doing.

You are not thinking about all of the things on

your calendar that you're going to have to do tomorrow. You're not thinking about

work projects, you're not thinking

about anything else but being

in that rising air, noticing

things to help you stay in that lift and then just

going up and up and up and up.

Yeah,

the time center, really

calm. Or when you're kind of flying in

smooth air, just kind of moving around. And

we have a number of terms for

what that's like in paraclining.

Yeah, you, you really, in some of Those

moments. I'll tell you

about one. You know, I was in Chelan, and

there is amazing flying site

that situated something like

3,4000ft above the

ground level. And you launch

off and you can soar above the Columbia

river and see this

whole valley from the sky above.

And it really gives you a new appreciation

for this beautiful place that we live in

and the birds and how

they soar through the air.

I'm absolutely convinced, having done this for a while, that

everyone needs some sort of endeavor that

takes you outside of yourself and makes

you feel awe and

deep appreciation for

the world around you. That kind of

shifts your focus from the mundane things in life

to something more profound.

I think increasingly, people and

their fixation on these things do less and less than

that. So, yeah, it's important to

find ways, flying or otherwise, where

you're outside and you're appreciating experiences

that are kind of holy,

physical and natural and help you appreciate

your surroundings and your humanity and your place in

the. In the planet we live on. I see

a lot of fights. I am fascinated by paragliding, and I hope once I heal

up to it. And we should also stress that just because you

can buy these on Amazon doesn't mean somebody should just start doing

paragliding. You spent a lot of time studying

and researching and being instructed. But also a lot

of the videos I watched, paragliding tends to be either early

morning or late in the afternoon. Is the atmosphere actually

calmer or is that just when people's schedules line up with when they

can paraglide? That's. Wow. That's a really.

That's an observation that not a lot of people who've never done

this would make.

Yeah. So earlier in the morning,

later in the evening, depending on where you

are in general. Yeah, the

air is going to be calmer. And that's a function of

the sun. Right. So the sun heats up the

ground and things on the ground. And then

what will happen is that warm air

sucks in other air and that turns into. And

mind you, I'm not a weather person. There's people in our sport really good

at weather. That's not me. But basically

very simple, very simply, that is how a thermal

forms. It will start on the

ground with area

that gets warm, air comes to, it

turns into a thermal. And that thermal, as warm

air does, rises. This is also how clouds

form. Right. So warm air rises and then condenses into

cloud. So, yeah, a lot

of that activity where you have

the biggest, strongest thermals

is in the middle of the day. So beginners

or people looking to only have very smooth

flights, again depending on the site place you're at,

only really fly in the, you know, the calmer conditions in the

morning are later in the afternoon or evening. Yeah,

that's probably not at like 2:30 in

Florida, you know, because every day in Florida you have like a 3pm

thunderstorm. It would be terrible to fly around. Oh, we don't. Yeah, we

don't fly in thunderstorm. Yeah, that's a horrible idea.

Horrible idea. There are some, I know there are some videos

out there on the Internet of people like getting sucked into

cloud to like 18,000ft and barely

surviving. That is not the sort of thing you ever want

to be doing. When you train,

you learn to be very attentive to the wind

and the weather and the clouds and what those things are

doing. So you don't go out flying when

conditions can change and you can very easily get injured

or killed. Yeah, it's like a metaphor

for life. Early in the morning's calm, it gets crazier. Middle,

middle. And then towards the end it kind of fades out again and.

Yeah, and you shared with us, share with me right before

we went recording that you did receive something in the mail today.

We mentioned the title already. Unflappable, Soaring beyond the

Diagnosis. But you only ever had a digital copy up until

today. For those of you watching now, you're going to see

maybe the first time on video. I don't know. Let me, let me turn the

blurriness off on here. Yeah.

So this is an advanced

proof copy of my book, which I'm really excited

about. You know,

I, so I worked with a designer

on the confirm. I did all of the layout

in the interior of the book.

I, I gotta tell you, I was just over the moon

to see it in physical form and hold it

and I, I

knew roughly how thick like these.

The tactile part of it. Really

important to me, you know,

books that there's, there's kind of a whole, for

some folks, there's a whole stigma about like self publishing a

book and it's somehow lower quality.

There's a lot of book snobs in the world.

But I will tell you, wow, I'm just so

delighted at the fit and finish kind of the fact

that the 200 page count

really looks nice in this form.

Yeah, I'm just like nerding out on

having a physical book. And I wrote it. Yeah.

It wasn't just the time it took to write it, it was the time it

took to live it.

Do you have a release date for the hard copy or can people get

the digital copy now? So I am going to

have a pre order that

opens in early September.

There are still some unknowns about when

the final print copy will be

available for sale, but the

likely release date is late

September. But yeah, early

September pre order. I have some

really special swag

that will be available only in the pre order.

If folks are interested in doing that and

getting some of these special items that are exclusive,

you can follow me on some stack because they're exclusive for

my subscribers over there.

Yeah. So pre order early

September. I'll have all of the details

and dates announced over on

my sub stack. And yeah, really excited.

At launch ebook, print

and audio will be available for

folks. I'm really excited about the audio.

A friend of mine who's also a pilot who has a

much better voice acting

voice than I do is narrating it.

So yeah, I'm excited to share it with people

and it's been with some advanced

readers and the feedback has been really encouraging

and uplifting. So pun intended.

Yeah. And for those of you listening, it's Unflappable blog. You can go

over, subscribe, get on the list, make sure you get all the

updates for when the book is ready. Late September, October, release

date possibly. Yeah. .unflappable.blog

Yeah. And also mention I don't know if you have any

listeners in the Seattle Olympia

area, but I will be doing some in person

events as well. So if you're here in Washington

and would like to come attend to reading, I'll be announcing those

details on my blog as well.

Yeah. Awesome. Jonathan, this has been so much

fun. Let's get ready to rock out.

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Oh, I had a. What's the ground speed of paragliding? I've

seen some videos where, you know, they come down maybe over a farm and

they're moving at quite a clip. Like what's the speed that

you're actually going? I don't think it's just gliding. You can. You can actually

make some distance. So when you have

a speed that we refer to

as trim speed, which basically means

if you're flying in perfectly calm air with no

wind behind you or so no

tailwind or headwind, that's your

trim speed that really varies a lot

on the glider. The type of glider I fly,

which is more for, you know, an intermediate pilot.

We'll do something like 24 to

28 miles an hour in, like, still air.

Yeah. But most of the time, there is some wind.

You want some wind? Because that's where the fun happens.